Although I’m an intuitive Empath/Medium teacher/mentor, picking up on vibes is something I don’t do as often as I thought. With clients, of course, but I’ve noticed unless I pick up on something odd or unusual about a person or place, I don’t even go there. Anymore…
And just like that on comes the feelings of gratitude and happiness.
My current world is safe. The people I surround myself with have a lot to do with it, the boundaries I have in place, but I also stand in my power, and I know I can look after myself.
With some thought and reflection, I want to share with you the three ways we read other people consciously and subconsciously. Whether you consider yourself an Empath or Intuitive or somewhere in the middle, the trick is letting go of trying to read body language cues (trick one), which we are familiar with; crossed arms, dodging eyes, etc. Stay relaxed and comfortable; observe, and don’t get overly analytical.
The Second ~ Listen to Your Intuition
What your gut feels, not what your head says, is your intuition, and it’s your body knowing rather than your brain making sense. Intuition lets you see more deeply than the obvious to reveal an authentic story.
Checklist of Intuitive Cues
- Listen to your gut feelings
Pay attention to how you react to someone, especially during the first few meetings. Gut feelings occur quickly, whether you are trying or not. It’s a primal thing related to our survival, and you can trust it. - Feel the goosebumps
Goosebumps, which I call my ‘right bumps,’ are intuitive physical warnings. They can also happen when you experience deja-vu, a recognition of the past. - Ah-ha of insight
Interacting with others, you may get an ah-ha, a download that comes in a flash. Be alert to those; otherwise, you might lose it before you understand it. - Watch for intuitive empathy
Can you feel people’s physical symptoms and emotions in your body? When you and around people experience discomfort, physical or emotional pain or distress that wasn’t there before, notice. And might I suggest you look or ask for feedback? A confidence builder!
The Third ~ Feel the Vibe
Emotions are the expression of our energy, the “vibe” we give off. Some people feel awesome to be with; they improve your mood and vitality; others not so much and can’t get away fast enough.
Tips to Read Emotional Energy
- People’s Presence
Our overall energy is not always in line with our behaviour or the words we choose. Do they have a welcoming presence, or are you getting the heebie jeebiess? - The Eye Are The Window to the Soul
Our eyes send powerful energies. Just as the brain has electromagnetic energy extending from the body, studies indicate that the eyes also project this. Observe people’s eyes. Are they caring? Peaceful? Mean? Angry? Is there anyone in there? - Notice the feel
A handshake, hug, and touch are big. It’s that moment of shared energy. Does a handshake or an embrace feel warm, comfortable, friendly or uncomfortable? Are people’s hands clammy from anxiety? Or limp, which suggests a commitment issue or timid? - Tone and Manner of Voice
The tone, manner and volume of our voice can tell much about emotions. Sound frequencies create vibrations, and that is pure energy. Notice how their voice affects you or the manner in which they are speaking. Are they friendly or snippy?